Showing posts with label victim. Show all posts
Showing posts with label victim. Show all posts

December 08, 2017

Are you a victor or a victim?

PAGSASANAY SA TAGUMPAY

There are always two types of people in the world:  (as they say)

                -->   Ang nangloloko at naloloko

               -->    Beauty and the beast

               -->    Young and old

 and may we add:

               -->   VICTOR OR VICTIM
                       which one are you?

You are a VICTOR when:

            1. You are able to achieve your plans

            2.  You are resourceful rather than resource based

           3.   You are always positive, you see the bright side of things

           4.  You are determined  -->   you go on and on despite odds and obstacles

           5.  You look for real facts and reality rather than base your opinions on hearsays and  gossip

           6.  You are action oriented

           7.  You are proactive

You are victim when:

          1.  The world is so full of obstacles and difficulties that you cant move

          2.  You are negative  you see the worst and the challenges in life

         3.  You see only problems and why a thing cant be done

         4.   Your life and vocabulary is full of alibis and excuses;

         5.  You are reactive, reactionary

WHICH ONE ARE YOU?   Who do you want to be:   a victor or victim?

Decide now

           

September 19, 2014

Stop being or feeling being a victim

BE a BIDDA: "BELIEVE, INSPIRE, DREAM, DO ACHIEVE"



The typhoon brings out the best and worst in people.  The best when they help the victims;   worse when people see themselves as victims.

Today we saw and experienced several victims:

1.  One did not go to office because they may have flood damage;

2. One left her gear and could not go home because of flood (ankle deep)

3. One texted that the local govt advised all govt agencies to go home (as if Holy Gardens was a govt agency) And the information was not even done through channels or proper lines of communication

We need to attend to our assets safety and security.  In the past we have involved ourselves heavily in assisting those who suffered from calamities. We are not victims.