The world seems to belong to those who reach out and grab it with
both hands.
It belongs to those who do something rather than just wish and hope
and plan
and pray, and intend to do something someday, when everything is
just right.
Successful people are not necessarily those who make the right
decisions all
the time. No one can do that, no matter how smart he is. But once
successful
people have made a decision, they begin moving toward their
objectives stepby-
step, and they begin to get feedback or signals to tell them where
they’re
off course and when course corrections are necessary. As they take
action and
move toward their goals, they continually get new information that
enables
them to adjust their plans in large and small ways.
It’s important to understand that life is a series of
approximations and course
adjustments. Let me explain. When an airplane leaves Chicago for
Los Angeles,
it is off course 99 percent of the time. This is normal and natural
and to be
expected. The pilot makes continual course corrections, a little to
the north, a
little to the south. The pilot continually adjusts altitude and
throttle. And sure
enough, several hours later, the plane touches down at exactly the
time
predicted when it first became airborne upon leaving Chicago. The
entire
journey has been a process of approximations and course
adjustments.
What’s the big problem? The big problem is that there are no
guarantees in life.
Everything you do¾even crossing the street¾is filled with uncertainty. You can
never be completely sure that any action or behavior is going to
bring about
the desired result. There is always a risk. And where there is
risk, there is fear.
And whatever you think about grows in your mind and heart. People
who think
continually about the risks involved in any undertaking soon become
preoccupied with fears and doubts and anxieties that conspire to
hold them
back from trying in the first place.
Launch!
At Babson College, in a 12-year study into the reasons for success,
researchers
concluded that virtually all success was based on what they called
the “corridor
principle.” They likened achieving success to proceeding down a
corridor in life.
Each of us stands at the entrance to this corridor, looking into
the darkness,
and we see the corridor disappear into the distance. The
researchers said that
the difference between the successes and the failures in their
study could be
summarized by the one word launch! Successful people were willing to launch
themselves down the corridor of opportunity without any guarantee
of what
would occur. They were willing to risk uncertainty and overcome the
normal
fears and doubts that hold the great majority in place.
And the remarkable thing is that as you move down the corridor of
life, new
doors of opportunity open up on both sides of you. However, you
would not
have seen those doors if you had not moved down the corridor. They
would not
have opened up for you if you had waited for some assurance before
stepping
out in faith and taking action.
The Confucian saying “A journey of a thousand leagues begins with a
single
step” simply means that great accomplishments begin with your
willingness to
face the inevitable uncertainty of any new enterprise and step out
boldly in the
direction of your goal.
Take a Leap of Faith
Not long ago, a couple came to me with a problem. He was working
for a
company owned by his family in which he was bitterly unhappy. It
was full of
politics and backbiting and negativity, and he was stressed out and
hated his
job. He wanted to do something else but had no job offers or
potential
alternatives to his current position. He asked me for my advice on
what to do.
I explained to him that there is a “vacuum theory of prosperity,”
which says
that when you create a vacuum of any kind, nature rushes to fill
it. In his case,
this meant that as long as he stayed at his current job, there was
no way that
he could recognize other possibilities, and there was no way that
other
opportunities could find him. I told him to take a giant leap of
faith and just
walk away from his current job with no lifeline or safety net. I
assured him that
if he did, all kinds of things would open up for him that he simply
couldn’t see
while he was locked up in his current situation.
He took my advice. He quit his job. The members of his family
became very
angry and told him that he would be unemployable outside of their
business.
But he stuck to his guns. He went home, took a few days off and
began to
think about his experience and his skills and how they could best
be applied to
other jobs in other companies.
Within two weeks, without raising a finger, he had two job offers
from other
companies, both paying substantially more than he was getting
before, and
both offering all kinds of opportunities that were vastly superior
to the job he
had walked away from. As soon as the word had gotten out in the
marketplace
that he was available, other company owners, having worked with him
and his
company in the past, were eager to open doors for him. As he moved
down the
corridor of life, he began to see possibilities that he had been
missing
completely by limiting himself to where he was.
Take Chances
If you want to be more successful faster, just do or try more
things. Take more
action; get busier. Start a little earlier; work a little harder;
stay a little later.
Put the odds in your favor. According to the Law of Probability,
the more things
you try, the more likely it is that you will try the one thing that
will make all the
difference.
I’ve found that luck is quite predictable. If you want more luck,
take more
chances. Be more active. Show up more often.
Tom Peters, the best-selling author of In Search of Excellence and other
business books, found that a key quality of the top executives in
his study was
a “bias for action.” Their motto seemed to be, “Ready, aim, fire.”
Their attitude
toward business was summarized in the words, “Do it, fix it, try
it.” They
realized that the future belongs to the action-oriented, to the
risk taker.
Top people know, as General Douglas MacArthur once said, “There is
no
security in life, only opportunity.” And the interesting thing is
this: If you seek
for opportunity, you’ll end up with all the security you need. However,
if you
seek for security, you’ll end up with neither opportunity nor
security. The proof
of this is all around us, in the downsizing and reconstructing of
corporations,
where thousands of men and women who sought security are finding
themselves unemployed for long periods of time.
There is a “momentum principle of success,” which is very important
to you it’s
derived from two physical laws, the Law of Momentum and the Law of
Inertia,
and it applies equally well to everything that you accomplish and
fail to
accomplish.
In physics, the Law of Momentum says that a body in motion tends to
remain
in motion unless acted upon by an outside force. The Law of
Inertia, on the
other hand, says that a body at rest tends to remain at rest unless
acted upon
by an outside force.
In their simplest terms, as they apply to you and your life, those
laws say that
if you stay in motion toward something that is important to you,
it’s much
easier to continue making progress than it is if you stop somewhere
along the
way and have to start again. When you look at successful people,
you find that
they are very much like the plate spinners in the circus. They get
things
started; they get the plates spinning. They continually keep them
spinning,
knowing that if a plate falls off, or something comes to a halt,
it’s much harder
to get it restarted than it is to keep it going in the first place.
Self-Discipline
Once you have a goal and a plan, get going! And once you start
moving toward
your goal, don’t stop. Do something every day to move you closer
toward your
goal. Don’t let the size of the goal or the amount of time required
to accomplish
it faze you or hold you back. During your planning process, break
down the
goal into small tasks and activities that you can engage in every
day. You don’t
have to do a lot, but every day, every week, every month you should
be
making progress, by completing your predetermined tasks and
activities, in the
direction of your clearly defined objectives.
And here’s where the rubber meets the road. The most important
single quality
for success is self-discipline it’s the ability to make yourself do
what you should
do, when you should do it, whether you feel like it or not.
Let me break down that definition of self-discipline. First, it’s the ability to
make yourself. This means that you
have to use strength and willpower to
force yourself into motion, to break the power of inertia that
holds you back.
Second, do what you should
do, when you should do it. This means that you
make a plan, set a schedule, and then do what you say you’ll do.
You do it
when you say you’ll do it. You keep your promises to yourself and
to others.
The third part of this definition is whether you feel like it or not. You see,
anyone can do anything if he feels like it, if he wants to do it
because it makes
him happy, if he is well-rested and has lots of time. However, the
true test of
character is when you do something that you know you must do
whether you
feel like it or not¾especially when you don’t like it at all.
In fact, you can tell how badly you really want something, and what
you’re
really made of as a person, by how capable you are of taking action
in the
direction of your goals and dreams even when you feel tired and
discouraged
and disappointed and you don’t seem to be making any progress. And
very
often, this is the exact time when you will break through to great
achievement.
Ralph Waldo Emerson once wrote, “When the night is darkest, the
stars come
out.” Your ability to endure, to continue taking action,
step-by-step, in the
direction of your dreams, is what will ultimately assure your
success. If you
keep on keeping on, nothing can stop you.
Preparing for the Future
Earl Nightingale once said that if a person does not prepare for
his success,
when his opportunity comes, it will only make him look foolish.
You’ve probably
heard it said repeatedly that luck is what happens when
preparedness meets
opportunity. Only when you’ve paid the price to be ready for your
success are
you in a position to take advantage of your opportunities when they
arise. And
the most remarkable thing is this: The very act of preparation
attracts to you,
like iron filings to a magnet, opportunities to use that
preparation to advance in
your life. You’ll seldom learn anything of value, or prepare
yourself in any area,
without soon having a chance to use your new knowledge and your new
skills
to move ahead more rapidly.
There is a series of things that you can do to become ready for
success. All of
these activities require self-discipline and a good deal of faith.
They require
self-discipline because the most normal and natural thing for
people to do is to
try to get by without preparation. Instead of taking the time and
making the
effort to be ready for their chance when it comes, they fool
around, listen to
the radio, watch television, and then they try to wing it and dupe
others into
thinking that they are more prepared than they really are. And
since we’re all
transparent, since just about everyone can see through just about
everyone
else, the unprepared person simply looks incompetent and foolish.
Preparation also requires a lot of faith because you have no proof
in advance to
demonstrate that the preparation will pay off. You simply have to
believe, deep
within yourself, that everything you do of a constructive nature
will come back
to you in some way. You have to know that no good effort is ever
wasted. You
have to be willing to sow for a long time before you reap, knowing
that if you
do sow in quality and quantity, the reaping will come about
inevitably with the
force of a law of nature.
Evaluate Yourself
Look at your work. Be honest and objective about your strengths and
weaknesses. What are you good at? What are you poor at? What is
your major
area of weakness? What must you absolutely, positively be excellent
at in order
to move to the top of your field? What one skill do you have that,
because of
its weakness, may be holding you back from using all your other
skills?
Norman Augustine, CEO of Martin Marietta Corporation, recently said
that the
most important thing he learned in the last 10 years of business
was that your
weakest important skill determines the extent to which you can use
all of your
other talents and abilities. In looking at the hundreds of people
who worked
below him in his corporation, he had found that people’s careers
were largely
determined not only by their strengths but also by their
weaknesses. The very
act of overcoming a particular weakness, through preparation and
practice,
was enough to propel a person into the front ranks in his or her
career.
In preparing for success, one of the very best questions that you
can ask
yourself, continually, is: “What can I¾and only I¾do that, if done
well, will
make a real difference in my career?” Usually, there is only one or
perhaps two
answers to that question. Your ability to honestly appraise
yourself and to
identify the particular skill area that may be holding you back is
critical.
Remember when I said that preparation requires both self-discipline
and faith.
It requires self-discipline because your natural tendency is to do
more and
more of those things that come most easily to you, and to avoid those
areas
that you don’t enjoy because you’re not particularly good at them
yet. It
requires faith and character for you to admit your weaknesses in a
particular
area and then resolve to go to work to develop yourself so those
weaknesses
don’t hold you back.
The greatest change that has taken place in our society in the last
20 years is
that it’s become an information-based society. More than 50 percent
of the
working population is in the business of processing information in
some way.
This means that we now have a knowledge-based society and that
you’re a
knowledge worker. You work with your mind, your brain, your mental
talents
and abilities. You no longer “load that bale and tote that hay.”
You work by
thinking and the more effectively you think and the better prepared
you are
mentally, the more productive and positive you'll be.
The Golden Hour
One thing that has helped me enormously over the years is the habit
of getting
up early in the morning and spending the first 30 to 60 minutes
reading
something uplifting. You can read material that is educational or
motivational
or even inspirational. Many people read spiritual literature. Henry
Ward
Beecher once said, “The first hour is the rudder of the day.” This
is often called
the “golden hour.” It’s the hour during which you program your mind
and set
your emotional tone for the rest of the day. If you get up in the
morning at
least two hours before you have to be at work, or before your first
appointment, and spend the first hour investing in your mind,
taking in “mental
protein” rather than “mental candy,” reading good books rather than
the
newspaper or magazines, your whole day will flow more smoothly.
You’ll be
more positive and optimistic. You’ll be calmer, more confident and
relaxed.
You’ll have a greater sense of control and well-being by the very
act of reading
healthy material for the first hour of each day.
After just three days of reading for 30 to 60 minutes in the
morning, you’ll
notice a profound difference. You’ll begin to develop what Dr.
William Glasser
called a “positive addiction.” As a result of your early-morning
reading, you’ll
feel so good about yourself and your life that you’ll develop a
desire and
motivation to get up earlier, even though your tendency in the past
was to
sleep in later. Try it and see. It’s a wonderful experience, and it
can have a
profound impact on the rest of your life.
Plan and Prioritize
In the period of time before work, another thing that highly
successful people
do is plan and prepare for their entire day. They review all of the
tasks and
responsibilities that they have for the coming hours. They
carefully make a list
of all their activities, and they set clear priorities on the
activities. They decide
which things are most important to do, which are secondary in
importance, and
which things should not be done at all unless all the other things
are finished.
They then discipline themselves to start working on their most
important tasks
and stay with them during the day until they’re complete.
Again, the natural tendency of the low performer is to do what is
fun and easy
before he does what is hard and necessary. Underachievers always
like to do
the little things first. They are drawn to the tasks that
contribute very little to
their careers or future possibilities. But high achievers are not
like that! High
achievers discipline themselves to start at the top of their list
and to work on
the activities in order of importance, without diversion or
distraction.
If you’re in sales, you should spend fully 80 percent of your time
prospecting
until you’re so busy with presentations and proposals that you’ve
no time left
to prospect at all. In fact, whenever you have money problems of
any kind, you
should look upon them as a signal telling you that you need to
reorder your
priorities and to prepare more thoroughly to accomplish more of the
things that
contribute the greatest value to your life.
Eating Right
Another way to prepare for success is to eat right. Energy and
dynamism are
essential to your success, and they’re possible only when you’re
sharp and
alert. There are foods that are highly nutritious and that give you
high energy
and vitality on through the day. Also, there are foods, which you
eat usually by
habit, that are hard for your system to digest and that tire you
out and make
you slow and drowsy in the morning and the afternoon.
The chief culprits in diets are foods containing fats of any kind.
More and more
nutritional research suggests that fatty foods, which require the
greatest effort
on the part of the body to break down and digest, are the real
enemies of
human performance. Fats are becoming closely linked to many illnesses
and
ailments. One reason why people drink so much coffee is to
counteract the
drowsiness that occurs naturally in the morning because their
stomachs are so
loaded down with fatty foods.
You see, the process of digestion is the activity of your body that
consumes the
most energy. When you eat foods that are hard to digest, your body
rushes
blood from everywhere to the digestive system to work to break them
down. In
this process, the digestive system draws away blood from the brain
and the
muscles. The reason you feel drowsy after a large meal is because
the blood
has gone from your brain to your stomach. The reason you get cramps
when
you engage in vigorous physical exercise immediately after eating
is because a
substantial amount of blood has been drawn from your muscles to aid
in the
process of digestion.
The key is to eat lightly and healthily. Eat more fruits and
vegetables. Eat more
whole-grain products. In his book Eat to Win, Robert Haas says
that your diet
should be comprised of 75 percent carbohydrates, 15 percent fats
and only 10
percent proteins. Since the average diet in America contains as
much as 50
percent fats and proteins, there is ample room to improve. And
every move
that you make toward a high-carbohydrate diet will give you more
energy and
make you sharper in everything you do.
Think and Speak Positively
In preparing for success throughout the day, you should also talk
to yourself in
a positive way. The work by Dr. Martin Seligman at the University
of
Pennsylvania has demonstrated that the way you talk to yourself
largely
determines your emotions, how you feel about yourself on a
minute-to-minute
basis.
If you don’t deliberately and consciously think about what you
want, and talk to
yourself in a positive way, your mind will tend to slip toward your
worries and
your concerns. And negative thinking takes the edge off your
personality and
your enthusiasm, which is so important to your success with people.
A few years ago, Dr. Abraham Zaleznik of Harvard University did an
interesting
study on disappointment. He found that successful people bounce
back from
disappointments far faster than unsuccessful people do.
And what I’ve learned is that the key to your keeping yourself
positive and
optimistic is preparation in advance of the ups and downs that
you’ll experience
each day. For example, if you’re in sales, change the way you talk
to yourself
by viewing yourself as a “rejection specialist” rather than a
“sales specialist.” If
you define yourself as a sales specialist, you’ll be setting
yourself up for failure,
disappointment and lowered self-esteem with every rejection you
get. But, on
the other hand, if you look upon yourself as a rejection specialist,
you’ll be
setting yourself up to feel like a winner every time someone turns
you down for
any reason. You can look upon every rejection as a percentage of a
sale. If it
takes you 20 calls to make a sale, you can look upon a rejection as
5 percent
of the commission that you receive for making that sale. In this
way, every
person you speak to actually pays you money. You simply collect it
when you
make the sale that is inevitable when you speak to enough people.
Every time
someone turns you down, you’re a winner. You’re just that much
farther
ahead. You’re just a little bit closer to the sale that must come
if you keep on
keeping on.
Use every setback or disappointment as a spur to greater effort.
Decide that
nothing will ever get you down. Decide that you will bounce back
instead of
break. Develop a resilient or hardy personality. Become the kind of
person who
is always cheerful, no matter what happens on the outside. Develop
an attitude
of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you,
knowing that
every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and
better than
your current situation. In this way, you become a far more
resourceful and
effective person. Preparing mentally, you become almost
unstoppable.
If you’re making sales calls, resist the “parking-lot mentality” of
the average
salesperson. The average salesperson doesn’t think about the client
until he
drives onto the parking lot, and he stops thinking about the client
when he
drives off. Instead, prepare thoroughly for each call. Review your
file of notes
on the customer, and establish a clear set of call objectives
before you go in.
Know what you’re doing and why. Be very clear on what you want to
accomplish with this call. If a person were to ask you how you
would judge
whether or not this upcoming call was successful, you should be
able to tell
that person exactly what you want to accomplish, and after the
call, you should
be able to tell that person exactly what you achieved. Most
salespeople never
do this. When you ask them if a call was successful, they don’t
know how to
answer you or how to base it. But this is not for you.
Be Prepared
In everything you do, preparation is the key. If you want to be
ready for
success, you have to plant the seeds well in advance of the harvest
that you
expect. Do what the winners do: Think on paper. Memorize the
winner’s creed:
“Everything counts.” Everything you do is either moving you toward
your goals
or moving you away. Everything is either helping you or hurting
you. Nothing is
neutral. Everything counts.
A successful businessman was once asked for advice by a young
person on
how he could be more successful faster. The businessman told him
that the key
to his success had been to “get good” at his job.
The young man said, “I’m already good at what I do.”
The businessman then said, “Well, get better!”
The young man, somewhat self-satisfied, said, “Well, I’m already
better than
most people.”
To that, the businessman replied, “Then be the best.”
Those are three of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard: Get
good. Get
better. Be the best!
Remember, we live in a knowledge-based society, and knowledge in
every field
is doubling approximately every seven years. This means that you
must double
your knowledge in your field every seven years just to stay even.
You’re
already “maxxed out” at your current level of knowledge and skill.
You’ve
reached the ceiling in your career with your current talents and
abilities. If you
want to go faster and farther, you must get back to work and begin
to prepare
yourself for greater heights. You must put aside the newspaper,
turn off the
television, politely excuse yourself from aimless socializing and
get back to
working on yourself.
A quotation by Abraham Lincoln had a great influence on my life
when I was
15. It was a statement he made when he was a young lawyer in
Springfield,
Illinois. He said, “I will study and prepare myself, and someday my
chance will
come.”
If you study and prepare yourself, your chance will come as well.
There is
nothing that you cannot accomplish if you’ll invest the effort to
get yourself
ready for the success that you desire. And there is nothing that
can stop you
but your own lack of preparation.
Let me end with this beautiful poem by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow:
“Those
heights by great men won and kept; / Were not achieved by sudden
flight; /
But they, while their companions slept, / Were toiling upward in
the night”
Your possibilities are endless, your potential is unlimited, and
your future opens
up before you when you prepare yourself for the success that must
inevitably
be yours.
Jorge U. Saguinsin
It is important for us to have a written goal of what we want to achieve. Once we have written it, we have made a decision of what we want, we begin moving towards its achievement by making step by step actions. It is said that plans are useless unless followed by action. And as we take action and make simple steps towards our desired goals we continually get new and more information that will enable us to be used in the achievement of our plans.
ReplyDeleteCorridor Principle is imagining ourselves standing in the entrance of corridor. We will became successful if we are willing to take the risk or LAUNCH ourselves down the corridor of opportunity without any guarantee of what would occur. Overcoming our fears and fears. And as we go on the corridors of life, new doors of opportunity open up on both sides of us. We would not see those doors of opportunity unless we take the risk of walking into the dark corridor.
Confucian saying: "A journey of a thousand leagues begins with a single step", meaning great accomplishment begins with our willingness to face the inevitable uncertainty of any new things and having the courage to step out boldly in the direction of our goals.
Vacuum theory of prosperity - when we create a vacuum of any kind, nature rushes to fill it." If we were given new position, walk out of your present position with no lifeline or safety net, all kinds of things would open up because all those were locked up and we were not able to see in our current position.
TAKE CHANCES - Take more action, get busier. Start a EARLIER; work a little HARDER; stay a little LATER. Put the odds in our favor;
LAW OF PROBABILITY - the more things you try, the more likely it is that you will try one thing that will make all the difference.
BIAS FOR ACTION - "Ready, aim, fire" in business: "DO it, FIX it, TRY it."
The future belongs to those who are ACTION-ORIENTED, to the risk-taker. Seek opportunity for us to be able to find security. If we did not take the risk of the opportunity, we will be unemployed soon.
MOMENTUM PRINCIPLE OF SUCCESS - Keep moving, keep ourselves from doing things right, do not stop and do not entertain outside forces or negativity that would prevent us from keep on moving.
Self-Discipline
Aireen
We dont need to be smart to be successful in our chosen career. All we have to need is a DECISION pursuing our GOALS in life.
ReplyDeleteWe must also learn how to face our fears in life. We must try to risk to learn new things in our life. Life is full of obstacle; committing a mistake in life is a big action for us for not doing it again.
We must allow ourselves to take a leap a faith, just like being a firely that dont have any fear to go closer to the candle to test his/herself to have wound or feel some pain to prove that we want CHANGES in our LIFE.
We must always be:
LEARNED TO BE GOOD
LEARNED TO BE BETTER and
LEARNED TO BE THE BEST
"WE MUST HAVE A SELF-DISCIPLINE IN ORDER TO BE SUCCESS"
Lynneth