January 10, 2013

Re: It takes two to tango -- in communication and cause of problems

In effective communication, it is a must to have stimulus - response. Stimulus is calling, texting or sending email.  The other party is calling you because it is urgent and it must answered promptly. Failure to reply would become a cause of a problem.  In our case, the problem's cause started only from our failure to call back for the unanswered calls or the "missed calls".  Kapag may "missed calls" ibig sabihin, you missed a great opportunity, you missed something that is very important in your daily life. When we failed to call back or RESPOND to the STIMULUS, there would be a chain of problems coming.

Thanks,

Aireen

On Wed, Jan 9, 2013 at 12:28 PM, Holy GardensGroup <holygardens.group@gmail.com> wrote:
TO       :   Holy Gardens Oton
                Holy Gardens Greenhills

Attention:   VT HO

I received last night a text from HGOMP complaining that they have not received the salaries.  It took two parties to have arrived at that problem:      problem with accounting staff (they acted slow), and that Oton does not have checks  (why?  -  the sending of the request for checkbooks has been lost and has not been signed)   ASR tried to contact you and called AC and she did not respond to the calls:  did not bother to return call or text.

The same happenned at HGGMP.   I was in Baguio last December 28 and HO kept on texting about the non payment of salary.  On the 26th I called for a meeting/telecon, I asked HO to call me;   he did neither.  Precisely, the agenda was about the salaries.  And now, on the 28th, he was laying the blame on acctg staff?  And wanted to be recognized?  Do the two MT understand fairness and being just and responsible.

Let us know?  What must you do next time.



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